


I have waited long enough and I decided today would be the day I did a post in memory of my dad who passed away unexpectedly in December. Today would have been his 50th birthday! My dad was not fond of the idea of aging, he was always the most fit guy on the basketball court (including his much younger sons) and he liked to keep his hair long (that was the designer/beach bum in him). When I was in high school I decided to grow a gotee. He was not thrilled but not for the reason you might think (clean shaven appearence is good for a pre-missionary), no it was because I looked older and consequently that made him seem older! During my teenage years we would go to the same place to get our haircuts and they always thought we were brothers, I was proud to tell people that.
Last year when we celebrated his 49th birthday, which obviously he didnt like big celebrations for him, I thought about what to do for his 50th. I thought about how I wanted to do something special but at the same time I wanted to be sensitive to his feelings about getting older, its ironic that today would be that day and no one has to worry about that, instead we just remember the good times and thank Heavenly Father for a great man.
He is indeed a great man. The picture above that exemplifies him the best is the one with his hand on my back as we walk from little league baseball tryouts. That was my dad to me. He was my greatest supporter in all facets of my life and in all our lives as his children. I'm fighting back the tears just writing this so its time to stop but I wanted everyone I know to know today is his special day. Thanks Dad you know how much we love you and I know how much you love us. I know that you are still a part of our lives and although it is not as convenient, our relationship can be more sacred and special and I will always strive for those little moments we will have. I love you and miss you dearly.
















